From Volunteer Coach to the World Cup: Celebrating Inclusive Coaching

Southampton High School Unified Coach receives recognition at FIFA World Cup Watch Party

For Brian Tenety, volunteering with Special Olympics New York has always been about creating opportunities for athletes to compete, connect and experience the joy of sport. After more than two decades of coaching, that commitment to inclusion recently earned him recognition as an Inclusive Coach and an unexpected opportunity to attend a FIFA World Cup match.

Following the FIFA World Cup Watch Party at Stony Brook University, Brian was recognized for his commitment to inclusive coaching and received tickets to attend a FIFA World Cup game.

“I was at first confused and not totally knowing how it all occurred,” Brian said. “Once I gained clarity, I was very grateful for the opportunity.”

Brian’s coaching journey began in 2005. Growing up, his family was involved in volunteering alongside the Long Island Rail Road. Later, as he pursued a career in education, he saw a need to give his student-athletes the same opportunity to compete as any other athlete.

“Special Olympics offered that opportunity and in 2005, my coaching journey started,” he said.

Over the years, coaching has taught Brian an important lesson: “Never underestimate or predetermine someone’s path in life.”

One of the most rewarding parts of coaching has been watching athletes and Unified partners come together.

“We have been able to reset the system of sports and find joy in playing instead of chasing it for the wrong reasons,” he said.

For Brian, being recognized as an Inclusive Coach is an opportunity to shine a light on the importance of inclusive sports and the people behind them.

“It’s highlighting and hopefully inspiring others to get involved by spotlighting the amazing work that so many do,” he said. “Most importantly our athletes and the Special Olympics staff behind the scenes work.”

The World Cup tickets were an unexpected bonus to a coaching journey that Brian never imagined would lead to an experience like this.

“No, honestly I am lucky to have a moment to sit,” he said. “My mind typically is so preoccupied that things like this come as a surprise.”

For anyone considering volunteering but unsure if they are qualified, Brian has a simple message: “Stop thinking and jump in, we are a tight group that will help each other succeed.”

He also encourages parents to consider moving from the sidelines to the coaching staff.

“Parents don’t need to be sideline spectators,” he said. “If they join the staff, then that means we can continue offering for not only their child but others.”

Ultimately, what makes coaching with Special Olympics New York special goes beyond the sport.

“The passion and love you see from everyone involved can make you better as a person,” Brian said. “It’s pure joy when you see the challenges in life tackled head on.”

Brian’s experience is a reminder that volunteering can lead to unexpected opportunities, meaningful relationships and a community that makes a lasting impact.

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